Questions for dating game
A good way to find out if they believe in only what they can confirm with their senses (touch, vision, hear, taste, and smell). This may give you a sense of things they like to do, hiking, historical tours, beaches, fishing, scuba diving etc. What’s something everyone else loves that you secretly find overrated? Just as an example, cheeseburgers because they are vegan or social media because it’s a waste of time. This is an interesting one as some will choose a family member while others choose a character from a movie or book. This allows you to see what or who is truly important to them in their life. Many people collect things, the question is how much? This will tell you if they are willing to try marriage counseling and couples therapy to save their marriage first or go straight for divorce. This can tell you just how resourceful they are and if they give up easily. This is a question you need to talk about before marriage and an important one. This is going to allow you to know how important their family is to them. This can show you how they treat their friends and people that they care about. Think of the song “Live like you were dying” if you don’t know the song, look up the lyrics, it’s actually quite meaningful. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat? Call it Karma or the golden rule, the question is do they believe that you reap what you sew? Are they actively looking for love or is it a situation where life is good where I am right now but if love were to come along, I’m ready for it type thing. Things involving family and very close friends, effect people differently and leave certain issues with them emotionally, mentally, and on their soul. If we were to have kids what faith would you wish them to be raised in yours or mine (if you come from different faiths)? Would you be willing to go in for testing again before we get more involved? You will get an idea of if they are religious or not. If they say that ask for the happiest moment of life before that.
Drugs, alcohol, gambling, and well you get the idea. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality? You shouldn’t drink and drive so the next question is will you do it again? If you have been on a date or two and they start talking marriage, that is fast and you may wish to slow that down. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up? This will tell you if they see everything as a competition they need to win 51. This tells you if they prefer lots of people or alone time with you.
This allows you to glimpse into their personal preferences, there is no right or wrong answer here unless you have tattoos or body piercings that they cannot accept about you. This one can tell you a couple of things, first do they fall in and out of love easily and second are they afraid of commitment. This will tell you how they handle anger, stress, and what they use as a way to resolve it.
A glimpse of how they see themselves in life and what they wish to achieve. If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it? You should be able to tell if they are extremely prideful or maybe they lack belief in their own worth. What’s the length of your longest romantic relationship? While being impulsive can be fun, it can also lead to disastrous financial problems if they are too impulsive when making purchases. Have you ever hit the person you have been involved with? This can tell you what they take seriously and don’t take seriously.
This is going to tell you if you should plan a night of dancing or not. This is a good one, are you going to be their sole relationship or will there be someone else while they are seeing you. However, you can never truly know someone, unless you spend time together doing everyday things, having coffee together and sharing the Sunday paper, shopping, eating in or out in a balanced amount.
You need to figure out where exactly their priorities lie and are they in tune with your own, especially if you want to have a real relationship with this person. This is a good question and again goes along with priorities. Are they a priority in your life and you might want to add on to that question to include children and having to move. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? This could give insight on if they have difficulty conveying their feelings to people that they love. Remember these questions can help you get to know each other if you answer truthfully and honestly.