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That same year, butch visibility got even louder when butch singer k.d.
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Writers have questioned what makes a butch woman in particular: Is it her style, what she does in bed, or who she’s attracted to? Looking back on this era, scholar Gayle Rubin wrote that “‘butches’ identify primarily as masculine or prefer masculine signals, personal appearance, and styles.” This identity thrived in nightlife. ” was a question that the Lesbian Herstory Archives founder Joan Nestle recalls being asked as soon as she would walk into a bar.Yet, a new generation of young, political, and college-educated lesbians developed in the years that followed. “Butch” and “femme” made a comeback in the 1980s as sexually empowering terms, and not just for working class women.The rise of feminism on college campuses left out working-class bar dykes — and butches were even considered “politically incorrect” by lesbian feminists in the 1970s. There were “butch bottoms” and “femme tops” who used the terms for their own pleasure.The queer people who didn’t want to play by middle class rules rebelled.In 1969, a handful of butch lesbians participated in the Stonewall Riots.